I've seen many families tripping. Mostly happy faces; only the occasional sour dour face among the crowd. I rarely have seen groups of men; only a solo male once in awhile. (Discounting party revellers out for a weekend booze cruise.) I've yet to see a female solo, but have seen many groups of them, and I've seen many lady yakkers going for group paddles. All of my observations are meaningless of course, only disjointed disconnected happenstance. But I wonder if male and female differ with respect to "What I want out of this experience." It's not as though men don't socialize on canoe trips, or that women don't seek solo solitude; but is there a trend based on gender how we regard a wilderness experience? I don't know, and quite frankly I really don't care.
Vive la difference and all that. I would hazard a guess and say that individual backgrounds have a strong role to play in how (if at all) gender bias effects behaviour. What the heck is Brad talking about?! For example, nearly always when my wife and I go somewhere in the car, I drive. Even when we take
her car out she passes me the keys; I ask "You sure?", and she replies "Yup." It seems a male domination thing, and once upon a time in society it certainly was and remains, but she just hates to drive any more than necessary, while it seems second nature to me. (She wishes vacuuming was second nature to me too.) Miranda
loves sitting in the bow watching the natural world
come to her, as we drift into it and through it. I'd love to sit in the bow for a change to experience that "Titanic" moment, but we'd be waaay bow heavy. We'd hit a Kap River rockberg for sure. Ha.
Well, that's all the bafflegab I'll subject you to tonight. I just want to say that whatever the gender or background, I'd like to think that the thread of common spirit connecting us all as trippers, is the wonderful wanderlust that leads us along the ribbons of water from put-in to destination. And whether you sit by your fire alone or in company, boasting a Y or X chromosome, know that we all have our paddling passion in common.
